We have been happily married for almost 4 years and have 2 beautiful children and plan on possibly a 3rd.
All the time care for it up! People are very laid-back, friendly and happy.
You can be the man you want to be — or a lot closer — but it will probably take a little work.
However, educated Colombian men knows how to treat women with respect as opposed to North American men.
I have been to Colombia many dozens of times, am almost 58, have a girlfriend for five years who is 25 now, I met her when she was 17.
Another word of caution, never use the word bitch Perra.
When I go to a restaurant or shopping I make sure that two buttons are undone.
I have to say you are off about not being able to sleep with women quickly, colombian women are very impulsive and if you can get her excited she will do anything anywhere.