But yes, i read that when a man feels emasculated he either shuts down and drifts away fearing you.
But the instinct to label and blame is born of the same kind of group-think.
If you own your small hands and feet what are the others going to do? Your relationship will never work if this is how it is set up.
A cute waitress innocently, yet genuinely, flirting with you at a family dinner will virtually guarantee sex for you that night.